prefers female partners. She is still fully biological male, but had training to talk and act more feminine. To me, I see her as a men who likes to cross dress. But if she wants to be consider a female who likes other females, I find it odd, but it doesn't infringe me in anyway and I don't see any reason for me to insist call her by something she doesn't prefer. My wife has no problem using same bathroom with her, FWIW.